Thursday, December 15, 2011


Last Saturday, Aeify Perfect came to the Washington area for a very brief visit.  Aeify is the recent widow of Penny; I wrote about that here.

We spoke on the phone a couple of times since the event, and I was kind of worried about her.

Now I'm not so worried.

She lives about 14 hours from here by highway.  A friend wanted to come here, and decided it would be good if she came along, so she did.  They arrived just after midnight, early Saturday morning.  We met for breakfast and spent about an hour chatting and eating and another hour chatting and walking around Dupont Circle before her friend whisked her away.  The two hours just sped by, at least for me.  I can be kind of tedious, so I won't speak for her.  I had the best time I could, without being Meg.

Aeify is a sweet young Southern gal.  She's smart and articulate and knows a lot more about the local flora than I do.  We talked about t-life, and living with someone who's trans, and I learned a lot about her and Penny.  We touched some high points of their fifteen year marriage, and some low points.  We talked about the past and the present and the future, and now, as I said, I'm not so worried.

She's working hard to get her life back on track and I have no doubt that she'll be on top of the world by this time next year.

The picture is Aeify and Penny.  I have no idea why Penny is dressed like a guy, except maybe Aeify asked her to, and she'd do anything for her.

I hope our paths will cross again.  She's adorable.


  1. Thank you so much for this. You have helped to relieve worry for many of us I expect. Aeify has a lot of folks out here in the land of blogs who love her. It is good to know she will mend. The photo is appreciated, even if it is bringing tears to my eyes.

  2. Well bring my vote to two in hopes we see each other again. You are too sweet with your compliments, it's a lot to live up to. This is one of my fav pics with my sweet love.

  3. Love the photo! I've spoken with Aeify several times now, and I too am becoming less worried about her. There will still be rough days to come, but I'm confident she will come through.

  4. Aeify sounds amazing, and I'm glad she's doing better. All best wishes to her!


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