When no gender fits: A quest to be seen as just a person
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Kelsey scans the wall of T-shirts in Five Below,
one of the few stores to qualify as “quirky” in this conservative part
of western Michigan. “Let’s Have a Party,” a shirt reads, near displays
of body glitter and $5 leggings. “Warning: Prone to Shenanigans,” reads
another, and after less than a minute, it’s clear the store doesn’t have
what Kelsey is looking for, because no place ever does, at least not
around here.
“I think I might have to make you a gay shirt,” Kelsey’s friend Kahri offers as they walk out of the store. “Or not a gay shirt, but — you know.”
“Yeah.”
What
Kelsey Beckham really wants is a shirt that communicates something very
specific about its wearer. Not about gayness, or anything to do with
sexual orientation, but about gender. A shirt that says the wearer is
something many people aren’t familiar with: Not a he. Not a she. Not a
male transitioning to a female, or a female transitioning to a male. A
shirt explaining that Kelsey, 18, doesn’t identify with any gender at
all.
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