I don't tuck and avoid skirts that would require it. I have some tight panties and control garments that can facilitate, um, keeping things in place when needed but I have a few skirts and dresses that are marked "NOT FOR GOING OUT" because they show what should not be shown, unless you're taking an Anthony Weiner selfie.
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| Shop sign in Duck, NC |
A few weeks ago, I received an unsolicited e-mail from someone at a company called "TransLingerie."
They are a Spanish company and they offered to send me one of their gaffs gratis. Two weeks later, I had a small package containing a brand new black gaff.
It looks a trifle... I won't call it scary. I'll say "uncomfortable." That's always been a problem with gaffs. I don't like the idea of thongs and all of the ones I've seen are thongs or thong-y.
I tried it on and it does hold well and it, alas, does do what thongs do.
I will give it a test next time I'm going out. I'm not sure if I'll give it a trial-by-fire (like, wear it with a Really Tight dress I bought in New York last time I was up there) but I will give it a try and report here.

