tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post8737841031491222720..comments2023-09-24T16:20:50.493-04:00Comments on Call Me Meg: "I Don't Care. Go Ahead."CallMeMeghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14184763491635476887noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-76042021960155141512011-07-01T07:46:35.126-04:002011-07-01T07:46:35.126-04:00Anon ~ I don't check up on my wife. I know he...Anon ~ I don't check up on my wife. I know her passwords (I set up her accounts) but I trust her. I believe she trusts me. <br /><br />And to all of you: I am sincerely moved by how much you all care. Thank you all.CallMeMeghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14184763491635476887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-8408842699066510052011-07-01T00:09:04.030-04:002011-07-01T00:09:04.030-04:00I wonder what it is your wife is doing on the comp...I wonder what it is your wife is doing on the computer until those late hours?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-73759506210543412582011-06-30T22:04:03.802-04:002011-06-30T22:04:03.802-04:00I can't agree with the last two posts.
While ...I can't agree with the last two posts.<br /><br />While it is true that your wife may get angry with you for dressing while your boys are away, he also knows that your dressing times have been limited and that you have never dressed in front of them except on halloween. While they might have an inkling, they don't know and they might not even care. <br /><br />It is your wife that has the issue and she should try to accommodate you as much as you accommodate her. If she can't handle it, then she might seek divorce but I think that she should respect a part of you. As a patner in a relationship, you don't always like every character trait of your partner.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-6085349957811032932011-06-30T16:09:02.887-04:002011-06-30T16:09:02.887-04:00I am Worried you are going to fast with your wife ...I am Worried you are going to fast with your wife - I had to pull back at home as Diane. Out as Diane is easier for her Dianedianenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-16425435519498772402011-06-30T16:09:00.496-04:002011-06-30T16:09:00.496-04:00Wow. Looks like you're going to get that divor...Wow. Looks like you're going to get that divorce you're bucking for, sooner rather than later. <br /><br />Sleeping in another room in a nightgown with her in the next room? Shaving your arms in the summer? Asking your wife to let you dress up and attend her spiritual book club? <br /><br />Wow. <br /><br />You can fool yourself with your self-centered justifications and hollow promises to tell the truth "if asked." After all, your kids weren't there, and you did offer to sleep in the guest room "if she preferred." So that makes it all okay. Right? <br /><br />Her "grudging acceptance," which Pat put so concisely, is quickly turning into gnawing resentment. And she will reach a point where even keeping the family whole for the kids' sake won't be enough to keep her from wanting out. <br /><br />Then you'll have plenty of time to dress up--in your apartment. <br /><br />How do I know? It happened to me.<br /><br />My ex-wife knew what I was doing too, and I justified my actions, rather easily. I felt it was owed to me to dress up, so I did--with little regard to how she felt. Her tolerance eventually turned to anger, resentment and hatred, all of it deserved. <br /><br />You've got a chance to save yourself and your wife that pain.If you care about your family, about your marriage, you'll come to an arrangement with your wife about dressing up. <br /><br />And you'll be an open book about it. <br /><br />I mean, do you let her read your blog? If not, why not?<br /><br />Because I'd be very surprised if she puts up with you sleeping in another room in a nightie with shaved arms and legs for too much longer. <br /><br />The crossdressing isn't the real problem. It's how she feels about it,how it impacts her and your lack of interest in her feelings.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-8325525169495305992011-06-30T10:07:14.886-04:002011-06-30T10:07:14.886-04:00How would you explain hairless arms?
I have see...How would you explain hairless arms? <br />I have seen some male acqaintances <br />with hairless legs and just ignored it. Hairless arms seem harder to ignore. BillAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-30473359683424647932011-06-30T08:00:46.116-04:002011-06-30T08:00:46.116-04:00The very familiar world of grudging acceptance and...The very familiar world of grudging acceptance and plausible deniability.<br />Having a CD husband is something that many women prefer not to speak about and will only tangentially acknowledge.<br />Many CDs on the other hand will finde every reason, excuse and justification to dress, in whole or in part and to talk about it or write about it as much as possible.<br />PatPat Scaleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00148601231866277374noreply@blogger.com