tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post2885359246847770484..comments2023-09-24T16:20:50.493-04:00Comments on Call Me Meg: Don't Ask, Can't Tell: Oh, The AgonyCallMeMeghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14184763491635476887noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-27216052946011941702014-10-01T23:57:58.500-04:002014-10-01T23:57:58.500-04:00I had a below the shoulder issue like that a coupl...I had a below the shoulder issue like that a couple years ago. My doc and I figured out that it was the combination of a shot mattress and the wrong pillows. Replacing both fixed it. Crossdriving, with Annie Barchettahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16841206220467540120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-2330870761250845952014-10-01T12:07:27.532-04:002014-10-01T12:07:27.532-04:00Hi Meg
I am going out with the girls friday in Sa...Hi Meg <br />I am going out with the girls friday in San Jose. Have new breastforms on order from Carla's. They are new kind that donot use spray or tape . Will let you know if I like them . <br /><br />hugs <br />DianeAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01235863839137110769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-56584757421137842412014-10-01T11:17:48.965-04:002014-10-01T11:17:48.965-04:00Get thee to a doctor, dear ... M.D., D.O. or D.C. ...Get thee to a doctor, dear ... M.D., D.O. or D.C. Or at the very least, consult a physical therapist.<br /><br />It sounds like you may have injured your back and pinched a nerve. Trishnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-14618999458812403412014-10-01T11:10:31.071-04:002014-10-01T11:10:31.071-04:00I was responding when my computer went to blue scr...I was responding when my computer went to blue screen. <br />While I have other ailments the arthritis in my thumbs has made fastening my bra behind my back diffucult. For some reason I just do not want to start clipping my bra in front. Why both of us prefer to clip our bras in back may be something that 'only you know and I know.'<br />PatPat Scaleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00148601231866277374noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-38438561794402020062014-10-01T08:05:06.895-04:002014-10-01T08:05:06.895-04:00Meg -
I have found that in a blog addressed to th...Meg -<br /><br />I have found that in a blog addressed to this community, one can tell much more about one's "civilian life" (life in the non-TG world) than you might think. But the trick is how one compartmentalizes life. <br /><br />In your case, you could talk about what you did at the beach - as long as you left out Meg Specific stuff. For example, you went for a swim, you went shopping, you went to eat, etc.... What you wore would be meaningless to the conversation, and easy to omit. And with your trans friends, you'd leave out only enough stuff to pinpoint where you work and how to identify your family members. You could discuss generic problems you have at work and with family, you could discuss milestones in life, as we all have them - and many are very generic, such as a divorce.<br /><br />This boils down to a simple question which only you have a right to answer - how "out" do you want your WHOLE life to be? And you seem to be more reserved than I am in my blog - and that's OK!<br /><br />With people like me, if we met and talked privately about our non-trans lives, that side of life could be kept very separate. But that's because I've learned how to talk about my non-trans life and my trans life in a more unified way. For example, I've talked about visiting DC and seeing a friend who was in my college classes. With my civilian friends, they do not need to know that we are en-femme when meeting. The trick is knowing what information to omit in general conversation.<br /><br />However, I have an issue which could trip me up - I live enough of my life en-femme, that I have to talk about parts of my life. So I have to translate experiences into the appropriate gender - my late wife becomes my late husband, etc.... This is a big pain. And it gets in the way, as there are some stories I can only tell conveniently when either en-femme or en-homme.<br /><br />But you have an excellent example of an area where the two sides of your life (for now) shouldn't cross - how you put on your bra.....<br /><br />MMarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18346866501735405647noreply@blogger.com