tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post2288503142431411217..comments2023-09-24T16:20:50.493-04:00Comments on Call Me Meg: This Will Be ControversialCallMeMeghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14184763491635476887noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-68478112108774010342012-11-18T02:08:29.965-05:002012-11-18T02:08:29.965-05:00julie from what i have heard and read these are co...julie from what i have heard and read these are common feelings of those who are transitioning ( that of both depression and suicide. with the right therapist you can work through it and become the person you feel you truly are. i know because my cousen has had the depression issues before transitioning and since she transitioned she feels like she has aligned everything within her to feel complete. but each person must come to their own conclussion about themselves. good luck with your journey.Diana Nicole Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16319421620972867830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-2363040037447064782012-11-18T02:01:30.136-05:002012-11-18T02:01:30.136-05:00i think your son summed it up verrry nicely. LOL
g...i think your son summed it up verrry nicely. LOL<br />good for you to make up your own mind on the new roommate!<br />Diana Nicole Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16319421620972867830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-44681571573608803362012-11-17T07:10:08.684-05:002012-11-17T07:10:08.684-05:00Aww... I remember this sad event from you, Meg.
...Aww... I remember this sad event from you, Meg. <br />I'm glad she will be coming up to DC. I'm hoping everything else smooths out, especially with the children. Take care, both of you, <br />Hugs, SaraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-55648958306211523062012-11-12T20:14:44.087-05:002012-11-12T20:14:44.087-05:00Petra thank you ~ she couldn't argue when I sa...Petra thank you ~ she couldn't argue when I said it was from you. :)CallMeMeghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14184763491635476887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-44156550512899409972012-11-11T08:12:53.672-05:002012-11-11T08:12:53.672-05:00I see no controversy here Meg. I rather think that...I see no controversy here Meg. I rather think that having a little company will help normalize all the change. It is a good thing to have someone caring about what time you are coming home, and it is good to look forward to having company when you get there.<br /><br />Don't make the freight any heavier than it is. You are blessed with a great and loving friend. How can this be a bad thing?<br /><br />Please give Aeify a big hug for me, would you?<br /><br />Petra Bellejambeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15325233285694315036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-29301390503518968542012-11-09T21:46:43.174-05:002012-11-09T21:46:43.174-05:00Julie, drop me a note.
youcancallmemeg@gmail.co...Julie, drop me a note. <br /><br />youcancallmemeg@gmail.comCallMeMeghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14184763491635476887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-10650843913425725252012-11-09T17:21:06.062-05:002012-11-09T17:21:06.062-05:00It is always depressing hearing stories like this ...It is always depressing hearing stories like this because it makes me look at myself. There have been so many things I've dealt with, even coming out as trans, that have made me want to take my own life... but there are those times I am actually afraid I'm going to do it because sometimes I don't want to go on any further. :(thelettertenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09016455963911783279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-50317883069078158162012-11-09T09:31:01.579-05:002012-11-09T09:31:01.579-05:00CONGRATULATIONS! I had a feeling when you spoke of...CONGRATULATIONS! I had a feeling when you spoke of a roommate this was coming. It's time for you to enjoy your lifestyle, with someone who understands you fully. Aeify is truely "perfect" for you! I know you will have fabulous and exciting times together. I'm sending very happy wonderful thoughts your way! and hugs! karenkaren goodgiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05322752675339875643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-48656424041157157402012-11-09T09:06:26.737-05:002012-11-09T09:06:26.737-05:00Meg -
Your last paragraph says it all.... If you...Meg -<br /><br />Your last paragraph says it all.... If your wife has contradictory feelings, it's her problem. You're dealing with your own grief in relation to the marriage.<br /><br />Yes, Aeify being a roommate is a complication. But she's a good friend. I have a female friend who loves her husband very much, but made me this offer: If she outlives her husband, that we should pool our resources and live as sisters. We both like to travel, eat out, go to the theater, etc.... So she asks - why not have a living arrangement which suits our needs? Right now, you could use a roommate. And that roommate happens to be female - and nothing more than that. But yes, it is a complication....<br /><br />MarianMarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18346866501735405647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383236105308499589.post-4366379044227485872012-11-09T08:22:17.252-05:002012-11-09T08:22:17.252-05:00Meg,
I think or at least hope, that 'controv...Meg,<br />I think or at least hope, that 'controversial' is the wrong word or concept for what you will be doing. <br /><br />I think a more appropriate word or concept is an O'Henry type of irony.<br /><br />I seem to recall that your wife was a therapist/counsellor. I am not sure if you ever mentioned if she was a psychologist, CSW or whatever but from what little I know about therapy it would seem that the therapist needs to keep an open mind as well as open ears about all issues. It would appear that your wife, like the wives of many of us, had a hard time keeping an open mind about Meg. That seems to be a sadly accurate truism.<br /><br />The irony is that Aeify may serve as a better counsellor or therapist than your wife. Aeify, has always seemed to me to be a person with an open mind and an open set of ears. She is a loving and happy person who naturally feels empathy towards others.<br /><br />It is sad that a trained therapist would consider CD activity as 'abnormal' or that she would use that term to describe your new roommate. Would she consider it abnormal if I were to be your new roommate? The irony is that Aeify does not find you or the roommate issue to be abnormal.<br /><br />From my readings I am of the opinion that both you and Aeify are considerate and thoughtful people. Just because she is a single woman is no reason you two cannot be roommates and I wish you both peace, honor, dignity and happiness.<br /><br />Pat<br /><br />PS: having the ability to be Meg and to have a good friend who is a girl that accepts Meg could be a bonus.scalesmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07405121500560615820noreply@blogger.com